Kabhi kabhi zindagi mein koi aisa shakhs mil jata hai jo dheere dheere hamari aadat ban jata hai. Shuru mein sirf halka sa salam, phir roz ki baatein, phir har choti bari khushi aur har gham usi ke sath share karna. Pata hi nahi chalta ke kab woh insaan hamari muskurahat ki wajah ban jata hai. Dil yeh maan leta hai ke shayad is dafa kismat ne sach mein kisi apne se mila diya hai. Har notification par chehre par muskurahat aa jati hai aur har din uske aik message ka intezar rehta hai.
Lekin har kahani waisi nahi hoti jaisi hum sochte hain. Aik waqt aata hai jab uske messages kam hone lagte hain, calls sirf bahana ban kar reh jati hain aur woh insaan jo pehle har baat sunta tha, achanak itna masroof ho jata hai ke tumhare liye chand lamhe bhi nahi nikal pata. Tum phir bhi uski taraf se soch kar khud ko tasalli dete rehte ho. Tum kehte ho shayad woh busy hoga, shayad uski zindagi mein koi pareshani hogi. Lekin dil andar hi andar samajh chuka hota hai ke kuch badal chuka hai.
Sab se zyada dard us waqt hota hai jab tumhein koi wajah bhi nahi milti. Na koi ladai hoti hai, na koi alvida, na koi safai. Bas aik din woh insaan tumhari zindagi se is tarah door ho jata hai jaise tum kabhi uski zindagi ka hissa the hi nahi. Phir har raat sirf aik hi sawal dimagh mein ghoomta rehta hai, “Mera kasoor kya tha?” Kya main ne zyada mohabbat ki? Kya main ne zyada bharosa kar liya? Ya phir main sirf ghalat insaan ko apna samajh baitha?
Waqt guzarne ke sath insaan yeh samajhne lagta hai ke har rishta hamesha ke liye nahi hota. Kuch log sirf hamari zindagi mein humein sabak dene ke liye aate hain. Woh humein sikhate hain ke har muskurata chehra wafadar nahi hota aur har khoobsurat baat dil se nahi niklti. Mohabbat sirf “I love you” keh dene ka naam nahi. Mohabbat to us ehsaas ka naam hai jahan koi tumhari khamoshi bhi samajh le, tumhari fikr kare, tumhari izzat kare aur mushkil waqt mein tumhara sath na chhore.
Aaj kal bohat se log sirf waqt guzarnay ke liye rishtay bana lete hain. Jab tak unka dil lagta hai tab tak woh sath rehte hain aur jab dil bhar jata hai to bina soche samjhe chale jate hain. Lekin jo log sach mein mohabbat karte hain, woh rishton ko nibhana jante hain. Woh sirf achay dinon mein nahi, balki bure waqt mein bhi tumhara haath mazbooti se pakar kar kharay rehte hain.
Agar kabhi kisi ne tumhara dil toda hai to is baat ko kabhi apni kami mat samajhna. Kisi ka chale jana tumhari qeemat kam nahi karta. Asal qeemat us dil ki hoti hai jo sachai se mohabbat karta hai aur kisi ka bura nahi chahta. Ho sakta hai aaj tum udaas ho, ho sakta hai aaj tumhein lagta ho ke mohabbat sirf dard ka naam hai, lekin yaqeen rakho har kahani ka end dard par nahi hota. Kabhi kabhi Rab tumse kisi ghalat insaan ko is liye door karta hai taake kal tumhein koi aisa mile jo tumhari qadar bhi kare aur tumhari mohabbat ki hifazat bhi kare.
Is liye kabhi bhi apna saaf dil mat badalna. Mohabbat se umeed mat khona. Jo log sirf tumhein dukh de kar chale gaye, woh tumhari manzil nahi thay. Tumhari asli manzil woh shakhs hoga jo tumhein kabhi yeh mehsoos nahi hone dega ke tum akelay ho. Aur jab woh insaan tumhari zindagi mein aayega, tab tum samjhoge ke asli mohabbat kabhi rulati nahi, balki har dard ke baad sukoon ban kar aati hai.
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